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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 2:07 pm    Post subject:  Reply with quote

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Thank you Nick for your reply.

It mentions in your terms and conditions under “No You Can’t” about sites advocating self harm which is self hatred, and you provide the example of encouraging anorexia.  I would like to ask how suggesting someone commit suicide is any different?  Suicide is self harm.  Surely posting someone should end their own life including predicting when they will do it, is encouraging self harm and is therefore self hate?

While I agree most of the posts on this site can be attributed to “childish crap” as myff admin suggested, I do think encouraging suicide is a step too far.

Your terms and conditions state: You can be "attacked" by guests or members posting material that contravenes our terms and conditions. But you must delete such posts in a timely manner and deal with any member deemed responsible.  

I would like to ask why the suicide posts have not been removed by the moderator/administrator and the members responsible for these posts dealt with as your terms and conditions suggest?  Is there any moderation going on at this site?

I’ve provided some links.  Some of the titles of the topics say it all:

Is suicide wrong

Female First's Luclastic (page 1) LucySHITMYPANTSlastic “I recommend suicide for the slag”

lucylastic's self pity could provoke a person to suicide

Gobnait can't get a man or keep one LOL  Sad Reality: “Maybe someone at ff should start a poll asking if  to end the pain gobnait should commit suicide ? I know how I & a few others there wud vote”

Lucy Is An Emotional Wreck Under All Her Tough Talk  (page 1) Here we have Sad Reality referring to posts by female first member Lucy when she was being flamed at another forum and when Lucy talked about this kind of behaviour being akin to cyber bullying and noted a case where this resulted in the suicide of a teenager.

Priscilla WTF is She Trying To Say  last post by Winston Smith states “suicide would cure Lucy”

Me & lasticlucy  Sad Reality boasts about Lucy “making thinly veiled threats of committing suicide” and Plasticlastic suggests if Lucy was suicidal and he/she would encourage her to “jump”

luclastic is a real tough guy according to her  LucySHITMYPANTSlastic: “Poor Loocy. Her existence must be difficult. She should drink a nice chilled bottle of drain cleaner and say goodnight”

Lucy lives a busy and demanding life important life  More suicide talk about Lucy including predictions when it will happen

Has Lucylastic off'd herself yet

Sad RL News RIP Lucylastic


That's how you present evidence.

After reviewing the new evidence I'd say this forum has gone way over the line. I think this does constitute genuine harassment of 'Lucy' as they discuss not only opinions about her, but about her living arrangements, relationships with her parents, the continual references to her committing suicide, and the like. All this goes beyond in my opinion.

However, it is the opinion of Admin that truly matters.
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 2:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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That's how you present evidence.

After reviewing the new evidence I'd say this forum has gone way over the line. I think this does constitute genuine harassment of 'Lucy' as they discuss not only opinions about her, but about her living arrangements, relationships with her parents, the continual references to her committing suicide, and the like. All this goes beyond in my opinion.

However, it is the opinion of Admin that truly matters.


Thank you Bravo.  

If these posts were just a one off I doubt there would be much concern about them.  We would indeed ignore them and treat them as "childish crap" as has been previously suggested, however they are relentless.  As are their posts about CG, another primary target of their harassment.  However I have not been able to find the time to pull all that evidence together.
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I didn't have much time but I’ve provided the following links to enquire whether this constitutes genuine harassment of ‘C.G.’.

As with the posts which target Lucy, these include not only opinions about C.G., but references to her parents, along with past and present relationships with partners.  If people think these aren’t capable of promoting self-hatred I’m at a loss as to what else needs to be revealed as evidence.

     
I CG REALLY disagree with this

Winston Smith: She's in her 40's, old, menopausal, and 3 husbands I have you. This last one is a knob and a loser. That's why she's estranged from her family. She's an embarrassment to them. A product of her mum and father's cheating outside of his first marriage. Her father left his children and their mum to marry her slut mother. It's disgusting. The facts have been published here. It is no secret amongst friends and others. Understandable why she is an adulteress whore, eh?

Sad Reality: Does anyone else wonder if cg has a venereal disease  ?



Enough already C.G. Carrot Girl. Why the façade and pretention

Sad Reality: I think it wud be fun to hear what the neighbors of c.g. femalefirst.co.uk say about her..............

Am sure the aged narcissist is the subject of much talk , living by the old girl  must be like living by The Bundy's from MARRIED WITH CHILDREN

Neighbors wud chatter away about  seemingly endless number of men moving in & out , the neighbors probably referring  to them as Bloke #1 , Bloke # 5  or have pet names like POOR BASTERD , GUY SO HARD UP HE 'S WITH HER , HEY ANOTHER LOSER SHAGGING THE OLD TWAT etc

Considering  what a pig cg is am certain the neighbors all rush to the window and laff /cheer /applaud when one of her ongoing chain if men smacks her around and excitedly call other neighbors on the phone to tell them so everyone can enjoy watching  the skank is get a beating  

Wud talk about how  in conversations with everyone cg always brings up scat issues like bowel movements , farting , and what she describes as her own  luxury toilets she has .Then proceeding to ask them for their own loo stories    

See the kids coming for music lessons and be gripped with the urge to run out and tell the parents to keep their children away from that freak ............

Maybe this could all be the basis for a BBC tv series with fellow freak Boy George as cg , as a fag hag she'd love the castings



Nose Job for CG

Winston Smith: Yes dear. Get one. No amount of teeth whitening (you needed it), or other nonsense will help you look less hideous. No one can see your face anyway, not with your nose.

LucySHITMYPANTSlastic: #pianoteacherbucketfannyadulteress known as Female First C.G. Carrot Girl  #Femalefirstcgcarrotgirlpianoteachercheaterliarwhore

No notices CG's face or jeans because her nose, the hideous mole is gone #thanksdaddy, is all that's on her shoulders. Her wide arse is still there.

Sad Reality: From her published photo the old girl might think about a nose job .Then again her present nose opens the door to a second career as an anteater .

Do think any work on that thing growing out of her face should wait till after she has a round of electro shock therapy too change her vile personality.



Pretentious CG is a Hyacinth Bucket

Jolly Wanker: the new bloke hit the nail on the head.  didn't someone say cg's father cheated on his first wife with her mum, who got pregnant (with cg) and her divorced his then wife to marry her mum? proving the apple didn't fall far from the tree.

Sad Reality: In her photos she looks much older then 45 and appears tired .  
Drinking ,drugs ,  smoking ? Also can't forget her disturbed personality , what's in your heart will show on your face.



Who is most insecure CG or Lucylastic

Jolly Wanker: after five years cg goes to the gym to exercise her fat arse. if she could exercise her w c fields nose off she would be five stones lighter.



CG's latest avatar

Winston Smith: Could she be more desperate at advertising her tired old gangbanged bucket fanny than lay on her back with her legs spread in the air? For fucksake.



Stalkers

Sad Reality: Isn't the old girl so important to have not one but two stalkers !!!!!

Actually it's not surprising someone as eccentric and high strung as she is wud draw the attention of weird ones .

Goes with the soap opera life that she is constantly writing about that includes ongoing serial relationships , proudly cheating , married ( for now ) but also a fag hag  , and plenty of experience with domestic violence ............

If the self admitted  queen of flatulence thinks anyone posting here is a stalker she is wrong .She  shouldn't mistake honest criticism of her gigantic narcissism with stalking .

Also ironic that the aging one wud complain about stalkers since she has been one . kingie told me how she was trying to find out who ex member murray was and make trouble for him at work .In addition last June she was following Lena  around in Members Chit Chat automatically posting after  her  as if to bury Lena's comments & was pm'ing others not to respond to Lena's  posts .



cg's insect infestation

Sad Reality: Maybe not bugs at all but crabs from her vagina ?  Maybe kingie should spray some bug killer down there ? Am sure it's been done before.

LucySHITMYPANTSlastic: They both are serial cheaters. There could be anything crawling  from her granny bucket fanny. The old slag is in her forties. She's probably shagged every bloke in her village. I wouldn't touch her, not even with my neighbours cock.



Garrot Curl

(page 2)

Sad Reality: Has a post up about how an ex would beat her  LOL) and another was a big asshole.  
But what could those guys say about her in defense ? OMG , she is high strung ,totally selfish , still subsidized by her parents , has a scat fetish , screamed lots , was a fag hag , addicted to expensive scarves & purses, about 13 years old emotionally .................

LucySHITMYPANTSlastic: They beat her because she had every bloke in the village cocks inside her bucket hole. Would you want to get every sexual disease known and unknown to man from your wife? Didn't think so. Surprisingly, I have had more diseases that CG. My scat in-the-garden-shed business has put me in the highest of risks category. Kingy will be the next to beat her senseless. He deserves what he gets for cheating with the married slag.



These - in addition to the posts about Lucy - are examples of what frequently takes place on this site.  As I pointed out previously, there seems to be no sign of it halting despite those concerned having ignored it for months.  I hope you will agree they go a bit beyond being ‘childish’.
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well at last a decent set of links and a reasonable point that we can go on.

To be honest it is still childish crap even in those threads, but it does help tip a balance and I have suspended the forum.

Threads like that force us to have to decide it really is childish crap, rather than that it really isn't if you get my drift.
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you.  Your help with this has been appreciated very much.
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 7:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good to see this site suspended. I think making reference to people's personal life, living situation, relationships with partners and family crosses the line between childish crap and harassment.

Suggesting people kill themselves also crosses the line in my opinion. Every year thousands of people and families are affected by suicide. These people should think about the trauma families go through across the world dealing with suicide before they suggest people do it in their childish anger filled rants.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2015 1:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I too am glad that this site has been suspended. It definitely crossed the line between "childish crap" and harassment/stalking of individuals, so a good decision by admin.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2015 10:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How long will Society of Canutes be suspended ?

FF moderators are not aware that lucy  ,cg , and various others from their home site have made group attacks at SOC using profanity and  emotcions for feces .Here they are simply trying to use ff management as pawns to get their way .

Since talk of suicide tipped the balance is it possible that in return for no more mention of that topic the suspension be lifted ?
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2015 10:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello wrote:
How long will Society of Canutes be suspended ?

Lol. Your life just can't go on without slagging off Lucy?
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2015 11:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Please don't start bickering and bitching here.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2015 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^^^^^^^^^^^^ We hope the staff here at ff will notice the hostility of the purportedly unjustly victimized people who came complaining . They are simply trying to use the administration to get their way .

Again there will be no more mention of suicide issues if soc is allowed to resume .
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The point has been made by both parties for and against  the forum being closed.

Until Admin has had the chance to read the comments , i'm going to lock this thread before it turns into a battle field.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 8:41 pm    Post subject: http://thesocietyofcanutes.myfreeforum.org/forum34.php Reply with quote

The complainants have not contacted me, I am prepared to look into the issues and remove the relevant members and postings, if required to do so by the owners here. I do not have an agenda against female first .. I think that a check on female first's own boards will reveal similar postings to what they are complaining about on my forum and to also show that for a female board a lot of the members (include some "females" do not appear to be actually female. Could they also note that the name of my forum is The Society of Canutes" and is not connected with the other forum that you have mentioned.

It might be that Female First have ejected members from their board, however that does not mean that those members (if they behave properly) should be ejected or followed onto my forum by Female First.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 8:55 pm    Post subject: http://thesocietyofcanutes.myfreeforum.org/forum34.php Reply with quote

At no time have female first contacted me. I have no connection with any other forum that they mention. My forum is called "The Society of Canutes". An examination of Female First's own discussion board with reveal that  many of the postings are of a similar nature to what they are complaining about on my forum. I will of course look into the relevant issue and remove postings that are outside the remits of My free Forums, however I cannot be expected to eject former Female First members just because female First objects to them posting esewhere, just so long as they behave within the requiremtns of my Free Forums I see so problem with following My Free Forums instructions.

The Society of Canutes is not a hate forum.

To avoid complexity I propose that if The Society of Canutes is re-instated I will remove all existing postings and ensure that rules follow My Free Forums guidelines.
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You have put forward your argument for your forum to be un-suspended.

I now ask you to be patience and wait for Admin`s decision.

This may take some  time.

I will leave this thread unlocked in the mean time.


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